
Individual shadow work sessions


Individual shadow work sessions

What issues can I bring?

What issues can I bring?

Alasdair Kirk
Shadow Work, Counselling &
Experiential Psychotherapeutic Process

Shadow Work Therapy
Working Online via Zoom
Symbolic representation
When working online it is helpful for you to prepare the space in advance of our session in order to recreate the studio space (where I work face to face) as much as possible. In-person shadow work takes place on a ‘carpet’, a rug in the centre of the studio which is used to symbolise your ‘inner world’ (or psyche); a space where we can symbolically represent and explore parts of you, represent and explore your relationships with other people, and explore the dynamics or conflicts that play out in your inner or outer relational field. These people and these parts are typically represented on the carpet using large coloured pieces of fabric.
See here for more details about what to expect in a session if you are not already familiar with the concept of symbolic representation and its key role in mapping, externalising, and exploring the psyche in shadow work therapy.
Symbolic representation in this way is unique to shadow work and there is deep value for you in setting up your space with consideration so that this can be a meaningful component of your online session. There is something about the perspective it gives that can be a very illuminating and powerful part of the process for you as we work together.

Preparing your room
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The ideal space is a bright, clutter free room with floorspace where you can mark out an area to be your 'carpet'. You can do this by laying down a rug or a throw on the floor. You need it to be roughly the area of a double bed, larger is also fine.
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You will need a place to come back to, a seating place off the 'carpet'. A space where you can sit comfortably and look at the carpet and talk with me as we move through your process, reflect and decide what to do next. While we are working you will need to move the laptop so that I can see you and so that I can always hear you clearly wherever you are in the room as you step on and off the carpet.
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It is important that you have a robust and reliable broadband internet connection otherwise we will not be able to work effectively.
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Choose or hire a space to work where you will not be overheard or interrupted. Please put 'Do Not Disturb' signs on any relevant doors to ensure your privacy.
Other items to have to hand
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Please get together some coloured pieces of fabric. These could be different coloured single bed sheets, shawls, scarves, capes, towels etc. These are used as ‘placeholders’ to represent the parts of your inner world and for you to stand on or to put around you when you step onto the carpet (into your inner world) and into different parts of yourself to explore them in an embodied way (if that is what you choose to do).
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A few large sheets of paper and a thick pen. Or even better a white board if you have one.
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Cushions or pillows are good to have around. Blankets too for you to be comfortable.
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There is also an invitation for you to find any other props or objects that may be useful or significant for you that might be helpful in representing your work and to help bring things more to life. This may include dolls, soft toys or sacred objects that may be used to represent parts of you, other people, or anything else that needs to be represented in your process. This is optional.
During breaks
In longer sessions, during breaks and lunchtime when we will both be away from the screen I will keep my screen on to stay connected with you should you need me. You are welcome to do the same or to turn yours off. Much like in in-person sessions, during breaks I invite you to stay 'in the process' by not looking at emails, social media etc if at all possible. This allows space for other things to arise into awareness and be brought into the work together.
Anger Work
Sometimes anger can arise in a session and when this happens you may choose to process and express it. If you feel this may be a possibility for you then it will be of benefit to have a few additional things to hand:
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You will need a tennis or squash racket (or similar) - the old wooden ones are excellent, very tough and can be picked up second hand for very little
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A very firm (dust free) cushion (or similar) to hit
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A cushion for you to kneel on
If you have any questions about any of the above please don't hesitate to ask them.